Thursday, July 19, 2007

Wanting Some Closure

Why do we hang on to past relationships that we know we should have never been in?

Why do we allow ourselves to feel bitterness when it doesn't work out?

Why do we find ourselves comparing our new reationships with the old one's?

We compare the Sex #1, Money #2, Physical attributes #3 and everything else is sort of falls in line.



Let's be honest here... I know that there is a majority that agrees with me.

#1 Sex - If the sex with the Ex was the BOMB! or Awesome! and the current partner really can't get you there... Hmmm... you know you find yourself thinking and comparing the two.

#2 Money - If the other partner was paid or wealthy and the current partner is broke or stingy as heck. What do we ultimately do? Yes, we find ourselves comparing the two again.

#3 Physical attributes - Now whether you admit this or not I will blatantly state this. If your Ex had a Banging body or was really sexy either with killer abs/ or very shapely you know that is the first thing you compare when you see them naked.



Proving my point as I said earlier. We find ourselves getting holding on to memories, comparing the relationship and now bitter because you are no longer with that person and they have moved on to someone else.



This really sucks but it rings true. Now how many will be honest enough to agree? Please reply back to me. Thanks for reading.